Sunday, November 08, 2026

possibility days are impossible

I had a pretty decent weekend, although I worked for more of it than I wanted to. On Friday I slogged all day, and then ended early to go to a visitation - a woman who was in PEO with me, and was also v active in Extension and 4-H, and was also the mom of a former high school compatriot of mine. She was a v. nice lady, and it was sad to see her go - but she had also been having health issues, so perhaps it was a blessing. Mom and [censored] and I all went to pay our respects, and then we came home before I decided that I didn't want to cook, and so I went back into town to pick up Mexican takeout for me and [censored].

Yesterday I did some slogging for the day job and some planning for my Spain trip, which is coming together in ways that I'm quite excited for. As dusk approached, I went out to Mom's and lit the grill for what is almost certainly the last grilling night of the season - tonight would have been nicer, and last night was almost too brisk (I don't like wearing puffer jackets near open flame), but Mom had one last package of bratwurst that needed eaten. So we had brats and fried potatoes and baked beans, and it was all quite delicious.

Today I also slogged more than I wanted to (several hours this afternoon, and another couple of hours tonight) but I'm hoping to feel caught up enough by my Spain trip that I can avoid taking my laptop. It wasn't all work, though; I enjoyed my coffee in a leisurely fashion, did various tings around the house, and also made a creamy chicken and mushroom pasta for dinner. [censored] and I enjoyed it while watching last night's SNL, which was mostly funny but also fairly unmemorable. And then I came upstairs and did some work, and now I need to sleep - goodnight!

Thursday, November 05, 2026

somehow we mixed up goodbye and goodnight

I had an excellent day yesterday, although I was dragging due to staying up until two a.m. watching election results. I am unfortunately completely slammed at work, so I didn't get to fully contemplate this week's sea change, but still. After all my many and varied meetings yesterday, I took a break to v uncharacteristically make myself Indian food - if I lived in a city I would have ordered takeout, but I had some paneer (cheese) that needed used, and so I made palak paneer in my instant pot + butter chicken and butter paneer on the stove. The palak paneer recipe was a new effort, while the butter chicken was made with a spice packet and some cream/butter/tomatoes - but all of it turned out very well.

So I feasted last night, and then [censored] had to deal with the smell of food he had no interest in eating, but c'est la vie. Today I woke up and immediately had to go to town for allergy shots, and then I came home and slogged relentlessly all day. I should have done more work tonight than I did, but I was feeling fried, so I drank a glass of wine, ate leftovers, and chilled until now.

And now it's time for bed - goodnight!

Tuesday, November 03, 2026

e pluribus unum

I have been watching election coverage since I finished work, and I'm delighted - but mostly I'm relieved. It was beyond time for the people to stop putting up with the corruption, grift, and strongman-worship of the current incarnation of the republican party. I hope this is the start of a realignment that leads to having a more serious, legitimate conservative party that actually cares about balancing a budget and letting people live freely instead of the absurd spending and abandonment of civil rights that we've seen these last few cycles.

But mostly I just hope we get back to a functioning government - which will take more than one election to solve. And so I'm going to go to bed and see what tomorrow brings - goodnight!

Sunday, November 01, 2026

write a letter

I had an entirely uneventful travel day yesterday - I got up in time to journal,  and then I packed and ate one last room service breakfast before dropping off my rental car and going to the airport. I was absurdly early because I'm used to Denver taking a long time to get through, but security was a breeze, and I killed time with a slightly disappointing soup before boarding. I made it to Des Moines on time, and got home in time to have dinner with Mom and [censored] - Mom had made vegetable beef soup, which was much better than my lunch soup, so that was exciting. 

Today I was about as lazy as I anticipated I would be after my trip. But I took care of a few tasks, made some lists, grabbed groceries, and made chicken and rice for dinner. [Censored] and I enjoyed it while watch SNL, which was a fairly weak episode but still entertaining. And then I spent several hours reading the book for this week's work book club - we chose THE CORRESPONDENT, which was quite good, and I devoured it in one sitting. And now I need to sleep - goodnight!

Saturday, October 31, 2026

i make my own luck

I had an excellent final day in Colorado. I woke up early enough to do some work in the lobby over mediocre coffee, and then I continued to work while eating breakfast. Then I drive to Boulder, where I ensconced myself in a cafe and took a few meetings before meeting Morganne for lunch at Postino. Morganne and I knew each other through all three of my stints at my former (and her continued) employer, and we had much to catch up on. We accomplished this over gluten free bruschetta and various wine-type libations, and it was an excellent way to spend a couple of hours. 

Then I went back to a cafe and worked for a couple of hours before slacking off to go to my favorite stationery store and to the Boulder bookstore. Just as I was about to leave, Katie informed me that her family was coming down with something, and so I decided to be cowardly / honor my self preservation instinct and skip hanging out with them tonight.

Instead, I drove back to Denver, spent some time relaxing, and also packed most of my things. Then I went down to the bar, where I journaled while eating a steak and drinking tempranillo and observing a guy who seemed to have two sugar babies with him (up from one last night). Sadly I'm checking out tomorrow and so won't know if he's continuing this linear progression.

At some point I was just about ready to call it a night, but then I started chatting with an Australian guy, which (v uncharacteristically) turned into me taking him on a ride in a waymo. Waymo just launched in Denver last week, and he can't take them bc it's only open for US residents, and I am a waymo evangelist, so you'll have to trust me when I say that it was a v entertaining experience despite its unusual nature.

And now it's time for bed since I have to head to the airport tomorrow - goodnight!

Friday, October 30, 2026

go through the evolution

I had a pretty nice day in Denver - I basically didn't stray more than three blocks from my hotel, but I kind of needed that. I spent the whole day slogging through a variety of meetings, and then I grabbed a late afternoon snack at the bar. I also went to Room and Board to sit in a variety of dining room chairs and make some decisions about what I want to order for my dining room - results tbd, but I think I have a plan (once I get the dining room painted, which is an annoyance).

Then I ran to the mall, where I didn't buy anything; came back to my room, where I worked/dozed; and went back downstairs for another snack. My eating times have been very bizarre on this trip, and so I had a sushi roll at 9pm - but the roll was excellent and quite interesting, and also the bartender comped me a v nice tequila shot (it's nice to know that I've still got my talking-to-bartenders skill even though I'm at an advanced age and don't get much opportunity to practice in southern Iowa).

And now, I desperately need to sleep - goodnight!

Wednesday, October 28, 2026

top down

I had a nice day off today, although now I wish I could take off the rest of the week. I woke up in time to do a hike with Aunt B, which was v nice. Then I said my goodbyes and drove back to Denver, with a stop for Starbucks along the way.

When I got to Denver, I grabbed lunch (a dozen oysters, fries, and a glass of rosé), ran a couple of errands, and then checked in and unpacked. I was going to stay in Boulder this week, but I decided that I'd rather be in Denver, so I rebooked the hotel I stayed in yesterday. Hopefully it's good for working the rest of the week, but we shall see.

Eventually I drove to my old neighborhood, where I hung out with Caroline and Alice at El Camino (home of the best nachos in the world). It was strange to be back there - both like no time had passed at all, and like I had never lived there at all. And now, with those thoughts in my head, I need to sleep - goodnight!