Tuesday, November 29, 2022
may the last one burn into flames
Monday, November 28, 2022
but i got the tendency to slip when the nights get wild
My kitchen remodel started today (which is why I didn't blog yesterday, since I had a million tings to do to get ready). This is the second kitchen I'm renovating this year, and I have to say I do not recommend doing two kitchens in a year because it's really complete madness. Hopefully I don't sell this house in four months like I did the last renovation...but if I do sell this house, I hope I get as much profit as I did last time (lol impossible).
sssanyway, the guy who is doing my renovation showed up this morning slightly before eight a.m. and immediately started demo'ing cabinets before we even really said hello. He made quick work of most of the demolition, although the bar / island countertop was surprisingly difficult to remove - given how a variety of other things in the house were done, it's astonishing that this countertop was somehow attached to a stud and basically had to be partially removed from the basement side to get it out. Our best speculation is that Marvin insisted on a bar that people could dance on. And now I wish I had made that stipulation, but I guess my guests will just have to behave.
sssanyway again, my kitchen is now completely demolished. The hardest thing will be figuring out the lights, since I want lights in basically the opposite of the current locations, but we'll see what happens. I'm pretty excited so far, but I'm also excited to be done, so fingers crossed it goes smoothly.
So I spent most of the day hanging out in the living room to be available to answer questions while also trying to get a bit of work done. Then I spent the evening researching ideal light placements while eating leftovers and washing my plate in the bathroom sink like a peasant. And now I need to sleep - goodnight!
Saturday, November 26, 2022
now i'm falling down through the crashing sound
I had an unusually productive Saturday, despite staying up way too late last night. I got up a little before nine, made some scrambled eggs for me and [censored], and then showered and threw on some clothes so that I could go with my mom to a local craft fair. It was at the main building in town (which has a big open space + a stage and a kitchen, and is also the fire station and the library), and there were quite a few people there, which was great to see. We did a loop of all the vendors, and I knew approximately half of them; we also ran into a bunch of people, which is what happens in #smalltownlife. Then I did a second loop and bought some stuff - a hollowed out log with lights in it, and couple of pieces of Christmasy decor, and a very cute small wreath from Gloria (who was one of the reasons we went). All in all, it was a nice excursion, and it was good to see so many buyers and sellers.
Then we came back to my house and my mom went home; I unloaded, messed around for a little bit, and then spend the afternoon painting my closets. It went pretty quickly, all in all, and I don't think I got any paint on my carpet, which was my primary concern. I almost didn't bother painting, but the closets were scuffed up in places, so a fresh coat of white paint really helped to improve the situation. It should be dry by tomorrow, and then I can install closet organizers sometime this week so that I can hopefully proceed to the next phase of making my house a delight.
At some point in there, I took a break to talk to Aunt B, which was nice. I wrapped up around six, and then [censored] and I ordered pizza and drove into the other town to pick it up. It was quite tasty, and it put me in a mellow enough mood to watch some 'Family Guy' without complaint.
And now, I really need to go to bed - I have to clean out my kitchen tomorrow, and while that seems like an easy enough task, I assume it will take longer than planned and I don't want to get a late/tired start. Goodnight!
Friday, November 25, 2022
that's a cocktail waitress in a dolly parton wig
I had a pretty good day, all in all. It started by getting up and making breakfast for my house guests - this was easy, since I just doubled my usual quantity of eggs/add-ins from what I usually make for myself and [censored] on the weekends, and I also made some hash browns and cut up an avocado. It was a good way to start the day, and I was feeling in it to win it when Kathy and Drewbaby headed north...
...but then I succumbed to the allure of my chaise longue in my bedroom and didn't do much. However, I did do more research on all things bathroom-remodel-related, and I also got around to spackling all the holes in my closets from the previous rods/shelves so that I can paint tomorrow. And I watched most of the second half of the Iowa State / UNC game, which was pretty thrilling.
Then we went to the parents' house for Thanksgiving leftovers, which were still tasty. And then I spent the rest of the evening contemplating remodel things + browing black friday sales. And now I must sleep - goodnight!
Thursday, November 24, 2022
can you take me higher? to a place where blind men see
Happy Thanksgiving! I had a v. lovely day, and it was nice to see family (and eat turkey). When I woke up this morning, I stumbled downstairs to take the cream cheese out of the fridge so it could warm up before being made into frosting, and I was pleasantly surprised to find that [censored] was already up and had pulled it out of the fridge for me. However, at this point I was fully awake, so I launched into doing Thanksgiving prep stuff.
For me, that mostly meant making a batch of pumpkin cupcakes with cream cheese frosting. They turned out quite well, if I do say so myself - and this was in spite of my inattention, which meant I had to toss part of a batch because I accidentally added too much baking soda and couldn't rectify the mistake. I cleaned up as I baked, so the kitchen was in good shape by the end - and I also dusted and did some laundry and generally tidied up. [censored] was even more impactful, given the contribution of [censored]'s vacuuming skills, so the house looked pretty good by the time we had to leave to go to the parents' house.
When I got out there, Aunt Kathy and Drewbaby were already there. Kathy brought a pie and some rolls, both of which looked great and neither of which I can eat. But I didn't starve - my mom made a turkey, green bean casserole, corn casserole, deviled eggs, and gravy, and she conned me into making the mashed potatoes (which I am delighted to do, because it is a high honor and a lot of responsibility to make the Thanksgiving mashed potatoes). All in all, it was a v. tasty lunch, which is good since we have leftovers to get through the next few days.
We spent the rest of the afternoon / evening hanging out in various ways - we had some odd/hilarious conversations (including about crypto, which is everyone's favorite topic), watched some sports, etc. We also ate leftovers at some point. And eventually [censored] and I absconded with Aunt Kathy and Drewbaby and brought them back to my house, since they're crashing here tonight.
And now, I should sleep since I need to get up in the morning and make breakfast (and then do a million projects) - goodnight!
Wednesday, November 23, 2022
love has a cost and both of us lost
Tuesday, November 22, 2022
my feet are still sore, my back's on the fringes
I had a good day stocking up on things in preparation for the apocalypse, which is what I always feel like doing when winter is coming. I spent the morning mostly buying / ordering stuff online for my remodel - fun things like towel bars, which are both easy and impossible to pick out. Then I had lunch and chatted with [censored] before running to Walmart (in the next town over) to pick up some necessities. I was mostly driven by the desire for gluten free bread, since I see a lot of sandwiches in my future while my kitchen is torn up. But I got a bunch of other stuff, and I mostly ignored the fact that Walmart is basically the best grocery store in the area (if you don't want to get meat).
Then I came home, put everything away, took a break, and then made supper. I went a little fancier than usual because I actually made the red pepper and chipotle aioli that the Barefoot Contessa recommends eating with her roasted salmon - it's delicious and easy, but it takes just enough extra time that I usually don't make it. But I threw it together, and then I roasted some baby potatoes, some broccoli, and several salmon fillets. This is all about as easy as dinner can be, since you just slather everything in olive oil and salt and put it in the same oven at slightly staggered times. The only trick is remembering to thaw salmon before you want it, but then not changing your mind and ordering food instead of cooking the thawed salmon.
So, tonight's meal was a success. And then I was going to do some spackling in my bedroom closets to prep for paint, but instead I watched a couple of comedy specials with [censored], which was #worthit. And now I must go to bed - goodnight!
Monday, November 21, 2022
my bad habits lead to wide eyes stare into space
I didn't blog last night, so you missed the happy (for now) ending to the kitten saga. [Censored] spent some time soothing it in the middle of the night when it got scared/angry from being locked in the bathroom, and its rambunctiousness in the morning led us to conclude that it was ready to return to its tribe. So, we loaded it up in a box and took it back to the parents' house, where we released it on the back porch. It was startled for about three minutes, but then it found one of its siblings and was delighted, and all the other cats seemed happy to see it, so that went as well as it could have gone. We'll see if it makes it through the winter, since feral cats have a high mortality rate, but I'm glad that it made it through its stay in my house and recovered from its earlier near-disaster.
So, after that excitement, the rest of yesterday was a wash - I can't remember doing much, although I made burrito bowls for lunch, and my mom made beef stroganoff for dinner. I then went to bed v. early (for me) and got almost nine hours of sleep, which I apparently needed. Today was mostly good - I meant to be more productive in my office than I was, but I got a bit of work done, ate leftovers for lunch, talked to Alyssa, and then prepped my bedroom closets to paint them. This required pulling out a ton of clothes, removing the bars / shelves, vacuuming / dusting, and then asking [censored] to rip out the shelf brackets. The next step is to repair all the holes in the walls and do some more cleaning before painting, but hopefully I can get through this project this week so that my closets can be fully organized after Thanksgiving.
With that all done, I made some chili for dinner, then watched some youtube videos with [censored] about how to find mysterious sewer gas smells, since my basement occasionally smells and I can no longer fully blame it on my predecessor. And now, I should really sleep - goodnight!
Saturday, November 19, 2022
a freight train running through the middle of my head
Today went entirely off-plan. I somehow slept until nine, which was v. welcome - and then got a text from [censored] asking if I wanted a temporary house pet. Apparently [censored] had gotten called out to the parents' house to rescue a kitten that had spent the night in a precarious situation and was nearly dead (the near death-ness exacerbated by the fact that it was about fourteen degrees), and so I ran to the vet clinic to procure kitten milk replacer and take it out to them. After much nursing and cuddling, the kitten is doing surprisingly well - if it were any younger, it probably would have expired, but it's old enough to eat real food and it seemed to bounce back.
However, we didn't want to leave it alone, so [censored] and I brought it back to my house, where it recuperated in my bay window for the afternoon. I made some burrito bowls for lunch, but beyond that I did basically nothing, since playing with a kitten was far more enjoyable.
Eventually, though, I took a shower, and [censored] and I shut the kitten up in the bathroom so that we could have dinner with Dad for his birthday. We went to Seymour for the first time (for me) since before the pandemic - the wait was rather long, but the prime rib was excellent, so it was a nice evening. And it was great to be able to celebrate Dad's birthday on the actual day, so a good time was had by all.
Then [censored] and I came back to check on the kitten, which seems to be doing well - we will likely release it to its fate in the morning. If I weren't ridiculously allergic to cats I would be tempted to keep it, but I need to have my eyes open to write a book, and they would be permanently swollen shut if I had an indoor cat. So, hopefully it's doing well in the morning and hopefully its mom and the other cats are happy about its return. We shall see, we shall see. Goodnight!
Friday, November 18, 2022
now your mess is mine
I have returned to the frozen wasteland that is ye olde Iowa, where the temperature is approximately sixteen degrees. Today was entirely devoted to travel - I got up early enough to stand in the usual thirty-minute line for a venti cold brew coffee to get me going, and then I got back to the suite in time to say goodbye to the rest of the crew (Barbara, Anne, Veronica, Grace), who were all on the same flight back to SF. I then spent a couple of hours doing some leisurely packing / showering before vacating the suite and going to the airport.
The rest of my day was entirely boring and entirely uneventful...and other than a twenty-minute delay on my second flight, entirely smooth. I grabbed some food at the Vegas airport, flew to Denver, and killed time at Elway's while doing some writing and eating a salad + some french fries to confuse my body over whether it was getting nutrients or not. Then, I flew to Des Moines, retrieved my bag, put on my coat, and immediately froze on the way to my car.
However, I made it home, said hi to [censored], washed my face, and am ready to go to bed. I'm feeling pretty inspired after the conference, so I want to carry that momentum forward this week - we'll see what happens when I wake up tomorrow. Goodnight!
that's what you get for waking up in vegas
Thursday, November 17, 2022
now we're partners in crime
Wednesday, November 16, 2022
i remember it all too well
Tuesday, November 15, 2022
get up and shake the glitter off your clothes now
Monday, November 14, 2022
shut up and put your money where your mouth is
Friday, November 11, 2022
pierced through the heart, but never killed
It is suddenly brutally cold in ye olde Iowa, which is a v. unwelcome development. It didn't get above freezing today, but at least it was sunny for several hours, which was a great improvement for my mood.
So, after snuggling in my flannel sheets, I eventually got up, made tea, took a shower, and settled in to get some tings done. I did write for a few hours this afternoon - everything still feels a bit like molasses, but it felt good to get into the story for awhile. I also did some stretches and kettlebell swings, so today felt like a win. And I tried on a bunch of outfits for the conference I'm going to in Vegas next week - I have no idea what to wear, and also no idea how much to pack, but I think I'll figure it out.
Eventually, [censored] and I went out to our parents' house for supper - my dad had smoked some pork earlier in the week, and my mom made scalloped potatoes and baked beans, and it was all pretty delicious. And now, I think I shall go to sleep - goodnight!
Thursday, November 10, 2022
i can still make the whole place shimmer
Today was pretty good, all in all. I had a couple of video calls, which is a couple more than I normally have - both people I connected with over linkedin (one an old college friend, who spent most of the call telling me I should run for office, and one someone I worked with years ago who wants to write a book). I also did four loads of laundry, ate a tasty cobb salad, ran an errand to pay for my new kitchen cabinets (via check, which is how tings are done here), and wrote for awhile.
At some point, [censored] showed up - and since yesterday's leftovers were a chickpea stew with coconut milk and turmeric, we decided to go to Garden Grove for dinner. They were pretty busy (which is good to see for a v. small town), but my burger sans bun was excellent, as were the cheese curds that I shouldn't have eaten because of the gluten. Then we came home and talked for awhile before I came upstairs to fold those aforementioned four loads of laundry and take care of some other tings before bed.
And now, I really need to sleep - goodnight!
Tuesday, November 08, 2022
putting someone first only works when you're in their top five
I had a really good day, thanks to some retail therapy. I'm going to a writing conference next week, and it's the first writing conference I've been to in (checks notes) four years. It's also the first conference of any kind that I've been to in three years, so my wardrobe is dusty and my social skills are even moreso. To bolster my ego and ensure that I have pants that fit, I made a last-minute trip to Des Moines to scour the stores at the main mall.
Unfortunately, styles are extremely bizarre right now. I am reminded that I am no longer twenty, and if I tried to wear what the twenty-year-olds are wearing, I would look utterly absurd. But also, I am not built for crop tops and also not built for overly-long jeans, and none of those things are appropriate for a conference anyway. So, shopping was a bit hit or miss, but I found a couple of jacket/blazer-type things and some pants that I think might be cute, but I will need to try everything on again in the lights/mirrors of my house.
On the way home, I stopped at Whole Foods to grab a few tings (I was craving rainbow chard, which is not a thing I have ever typed before, but I can't get it here and so scarcity creates desire). I also talked to Katie for an hour or so, which was excellent. And then I got home, unloaded my car, heated up some spaghetti, and watched election results.
All in all, I'm happy with where things are headed so far. I still live in hope that the Republicans will eventually stop nominating completely crazy candidates and will also stop attempting to pass laws that curtail everyone else's freedoms in the name of keeping a sliver of the population from feeling offended, but the party never learned its lesson about Trump and they seem content to continue dying on his hill. I also live in hope that they will get the message on how all the anti-abortion bills are failing at state levels, since I would like to maintain my access to IVF, like having birth control that keeps me from throwing up for hours every month, and also think it's important for women to be able to survive things like ectopic pregnancies and miscarriages that require abortions to prevent sepsis. Unfortunately, Iowa continues to swing to an R super-state, which is hard to watch since the governor is basically running on a massive state tax surplus + funneling money to private Christian schools while rural counties and public schools are starving for funds to stay afloat, but c'est la vie.
So, I'm sure all sorts of crazy things will come up in regards to election denial (i.e. Republicans already claiming that Maricopa County's voting is rigged despite Republicans controlling the entire elections department there), and I still doubt that the Democrats will hold onto the house, but at least it wasn't a bloodbath. And on that note, I'm going to stop watching coverage and go to bed - goodnight!
Monday, November 07, 2022
did all the extra credit then got graded on a curve
I had a lovely day, although I'm trying to remind myself that I don't have to get a million things done to have a good day. I got up in time to make some coffee and take care of a few tings before my usual Monday call with Alyssa. Then, I put together a bunch of cobb salads - I had cooked the chicken and eggs yesterday, but I had to cook the bacon, cut some tomatoes, peel the eggs, and chop the lettuce and chicken before assembling everything. So, I ended up putting together two salads for me and [censored] to eat for lunch (only one of them had bleu cheese, since only one of us thinks that mold is an appealing snack), and then I put four more together in mason jars to eat the rest of the week. Cobb salads are kind of a pain, but I'm always delighted when I have them in the fridge, so I feel v. accomplished.
After that, I spent most of the afternoon working on organizing my office - the broad strokes were completed awhile ago, but my office supplies, files, etc. were still in wild disarray. They're still in some disarray, but things are coming together. I also unpacked the rest of my workout stuff, so I'm getting a better sense of how I want to lay out my upstairs space.
At some point, I took a walk so that I could drop off the payment for my water bill (#smalltownlife = no way to pay my water bill online), and then I ate some popcorn and chilled. I also bid farewell to [censored], ate some leftover spaghetti, and then did more office work until now. I have grand plans to do something other than organizing tomorrow, but we'll see whether I accomplish them.
And now, it's time for bed - goodnight!